As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come follow me”, Jesus said; “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed Him.
A couple of weeks ago Jim and I went to his home church to worship with his family. As the service began, the minister did his greeting and in his greeting he shared this thought: “When we invite someone to church, we are asking them to be part of God’s family and to join us on the journey to heaven.” I loved this statement and it made my heart smile.
Have you ever taken a trip with a group of friends? If you have, you probably experienced lots of laughter, fellowship, maybe a sing-a-long or two, and even some tears along the way. Yet, no matter the conditions, the ups and the downs, in the end, you would not trade that memory for anything in the world. You were glad you made the trip and may have even gotten to know someone a little better as you traveled together. Not only did you get to know someone a little better but if your heart was opened, you probably learned a little more about yourself. You learned things of where you may need to ease up on or things you need to focus on more.
The spiritual journey is very much the same as taking a trip with a group of friends. In this journey, you fellowship with others, you laugh together, cry together, and even may get upset with one another from time to time. Yet, along the way you learn more about the person you are walking with and little more about yourself. Thus, the end result is you are day by day walking closer with the Lord.
People are in different places in their spiritual journey and some have not even begun to plan for that journey. It is the responsibility as Christians that they not only keep walking daily with Christ in their journey but to be in tuned to those God places in their path’s and to meet them where they are at on their journey. If they are not even at the starting phase of their journey, people need to reach out a hand of grace and unconditional love and let the person know that no matter what they are welcomed on the journey. Then, just start walking with them from where they are at and before you know it they are walking along growing in their faith. As they grow, you grow, too.
There are also times when you are on your journey you may see someone who is a little further along than you. Please know that is okay and that person will stop and come back and meet you where you are at and will walk with along with you. In this stopping and going back to meet you where you are at, they are demonstrating all the more God’s grace and love. The end result is still the same. Faith gets a little stronger and everyone is still heading for the same destination.
In the days ahead of walking on your journey, invite others to walk with you and journey with you through this world. Just remember, that our journey is much like a race, we don’t all get to the finish line at the same time but we can help one another along the way. Invite someone on the journey. As the saying goes; “the more the merrier!”
- All Inclusive! (aprilhawk.wordpress.com)
- LOVE- the Journey Begins (wordofgodspeaktome.wordpress.com)
- The journey inward (sacredcomfort.wordpress.com)
- Preaching to the Choir? (wsforchrist.com)
- Morning Prayer ~ January 24, 2013 (ronpogue.typepad.com)
“Shepherds of the flock of God which is among you, serving as overseers, not by compulsion by willingly, not for dishonest gain but eagerly; nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock; and when the Chef Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that does not fade.” 1 Peter 5:2-4
Back in the 1980′s, there was a song with the lyrics; “I always feel like somebody’s watching me.” No matter where this person in the song was, he felt as though someone was watching. Yes, it was a fun and catchy song for the time but it had some truth in it as well.
How many of us like to people watch? I know my husband and I enjoy people watching especially when we are out-of-town. We watch and wonder where people are from and where they are going. We enjoy watching children at play and interacting with their families on vacation.
Though we enjoy people watching, do we realize that there are people watching us as Christians? In our every day walks of life, people are watching our actions and re-actions. When they are watching us do they see the message we proclaim in action? Do they see us putting grace into action when we get into a pickle or someone upsets us? Convicting isn’t it?
Today, I had a conviction of heart on how I stand on a certain issue. I had posted my stance on my timeline. As I did this, I sent a text to my son, Drew regarding what I had done. Of course with him be the social media guru that he is, I knew he would probably send me his opinion/response as soon as he could. And, he did. I liked what he sent to me; “I find it odd to make a public declaration when it’s just as easy to live it without words.” In my postsWise Guy, I share how Drew can zing his dad and me from time to time. And, this text is an example of him zinging me. Those words he sent zinged my heart and really got me to thinking even more and deeper.
After receiving this text and texting him back on how right on he was, I took the stance on this particular issue off my timeline. I realized I not only can say my stance through my actions, what I post, share on Facebook, through emails but it is simply how I live each day. This statement made me realize that people are watching me as much as I am watching them.
Have you heard the saying; “If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything?” It is so true. Sometimes, we need to put what we believe in writing but it is not our writing, what we share on Facebook and through emails that are going to say to people where we stand on certain issues. It is how we live and what we do in our every day actions. As Christians, we are a living testimony of what it means to be living in the Kingdom. Sometimes, we are the only bible a person may read. In this walking and living testimony, we do need to take a stand for God and the rules/values that he expects us to live by. If we don’t take a stand for God and his values, we will begin to fall and believe that certain ways of the world are okay. And, people are watching for us even closer in these certain situations. There are those who would love nothing better than to see us fall.
Are we going to fall? Yes, we will fall at times. It is all a part of being human. Yet, as Christians, we know we can ask for grace/forgiveness, get up and dust ourselves off and move on towards perfection. We are not a perfect people but we are a forgiven people working and walking towards perfection each day to glorify God and his Kingdom.
So, do you feel like somebody is watching you? My guess is that somebody is watching you. Now, that you know they are watching, are you walking the talk, walking the stance you take on certain issues and are you showing how a Christian acts and re-acts in certain situations? I know that these are convicting questions. Before writing this post, I went through these very questions of conviction in my heart and my life. And, boy! I have stumbled a few times! Yet, I know that I can ask for God’s grace and start anew at this very moment.
Maybe you have been walking differently from the way you have been talking. If so, stop and talk to God. Ask God for his forgiveness and grace. After all, part of being a living testimony is people seeing us on our knees asking for God’s mercy and grace. Then, as they watch on, they see us rise up ready to move on walking in the light and grace of God.
Remember; “there IS always somebody watching you.” What’s your message?
2 Corinthians 4:7-17
7 But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12 So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you.
13 It is written: “I believed; therefore I have spoken.”[a] Since we have that same spirit of[b] faith, we also believe and therefore speak, 14 because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you to himself. 15 All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.
16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.
Jars can contain many things. If you looked in my fridge right now, you would see many jars. One jar contains mayo, another pickles, another bread starter and the list would go on. These jars are jars with contents that the human eye can see and we paid a price for these jars that hold the various items we use in our daily lives. Yet, I want to share about another jar that I have in my life. This jar is priceless.
The jar I am talking about is me. I am merely a jar. Inside this jar is a God shaped space that only Jesus can fill. It is through my writings that I attempt to share my faith and the GOOD NEWS of Jesus Christ. Each time I write, I ask God for His wonderful love to be revealed and seen through me. I also ask God to give me the strength, the words and the power to convey what others are searching for in a chaotic world.
Is emptying my jar of my priceless contents always easy? No. There are moments when I have no clue of what I need to write or share. It is in those times, I need to seek even more His presence, listen to His voice, and ask Him for guidance and direction. Most times, the topics I write about are not the ones I thought I would write, and I have written on topics I did not think I would touch. This happens when God pours His power and His contents into my jar.
There have been times where I have been criticized about what I have written. In every situation, there is always a critic. For a while, this bothered me but then I realized that God was placing them in my path for a reason. Not only in my writing have I encountered critics but I have encountered from time to time over the years in my Christian walk. It is through these critics and trials that I have walked through where I experienced God’s grace and presence all the more. In this process, I learned more about myself, dug my heels in a little deeper in my faith, and faced the importance of accountability. In my sharing faith, I am accountable to my readers, to God, and most of all to myself. Each evening, as I wash my face, I look in the mirror and ask; “did others see God in me today?” “Did others see the true contents of my jar?”
There have been times when I sit at the computer with a blank screen wondering how to word a thought God has placed in my heart, or feeling too tired or burned to write. My summer was a good example of feeling too weary and overwhelmed to answer where I would muster up the energy to even write. “Who wants to hear from someone who is weary?” “Am I better just shutting off the computer and moving on in life?” Yet, as I asked myself these questions, God would supply what I needed. It was through the weariness, the trials, and constant running where I saw God’s blessings the most. Thus, giving more contents to spill out of my jar to share with others. God showed me how my sufferings were opening doors of opportunities to share God’s grace, love and peace.
Every day, God gives me a new day. He awakens me with a full jar of contents that He instructs me to pour out and share with others as I go through my day. Yes, there are days where the words and energy aren’t simply there. There are days with more trials than others. But, in the end, I still empty my contents to the best of my ability so that others will experience God’s wonderful presence, grace and learn of a wonderful eternal home.
How about you? Do others see the contents of your jar? I encourage you to invite God to fill the empty recesses of your jar with priceless contents. Then, as jar is filled, empty your jar for others to see the love of God and is wonderful grace. The results of emptying your contents are priceless!
When I hear the bounce of a ping-pong ball, I think of these things:
When I met Jim for the first time, he carried a ping-pong paddle everywhere he went ready to take a challenge of ping-pong at anytime. Jim used a game of ping-pong to get to know me better. As we played, we had found out that his Wesley Foundation tour group had gone to Texas for Spring Break and the college choir I sung with went to Texas during Spring Break. We discussed our itineraries of Spring Break and found out that we had followed each other up and down the Gulf Coast that Spring. As a matter of fact, his group had been invited to come to a church where the choir I was with was performing one evening. Yet, Jim opted not to go but stayed behind at the Rec center of the church that was lodging his group. He opted out to play ping-pong! Even though Jim didn’t hear God tell him the girl of his dreams was at this church and yielded to play ping-pong that evening, God did get us together three months later at Lake Junaluska. And, it was a game of ping-pong where we began to share our stories and bond.
When I hear the bounce of a ping-pong ball on the table, I think of a trip I took to Costa Rica my senior year in high school. I was part of a Mission Team that went to one of the small towns in the mountains of Costa Rica to work on a Methodist church. One of the projects we were to work on was to do some work on a dorm that the church provided for young men to reside in while they attended school in town. After many days of electrical work, painting and cleaning, the dorm was ready for these young men to reside in. One evening, as our group leader began to lead us in evening prayers, we heard the bounce of a ping-pong ball hitting a tennis table. We all could not help but smile. The residents of this dorm did not have to tell us they appreciated our work but we heard their appreciation through the sound of a game of ping-pong being played.
The holidays will soon be here which means my son, Drew and his wife, Megan will be coming in for a day or two to celebrate Christmas. One tradition that is sacred at hour house is Jim and Drew setting up the ping-pong table in the garage and challenging each other to a game or two. In the process of trick serves, twist and our black lab, Tori catching a few balls, this father/son/best friend duo will catch up on what is up at their offices, and University of Kentucky basketball.
Not only does Jim and Drew enjoy a game of ping-pong when Drew is home. But, Drew’s office has a room with a ping-pong table. It is used when there are blocks of creativity, and to possibly get to know someone better. As a matter of fact, Drew’s interview with his company included a game of ping-pong.
Each one of these scenarios of ping-pong represent something of importance. It is the importance of communication. It is in the serving the ball back and forth that conversation begins. Every now and then, there may be a pause in a game for the competitors to listen even closer to one another. When we talk with others, it is important that we share a little about ourselves and then let the other share about themselves. Out of this going back and forth, friendships are formed and relationships are nurtured.
God placed us here to not just be in relationship with Him but to be in relationship with others. It is in relationship with others that we are nurtured, learn more about the needs of others, and learn more about ourselves. In order to be in relationship with God and with others, we have to be willing to serve and then be served too.
Sometimes, some of us tend to be the ones who are always being served. When we are simply just served all the time without returning, we miss the blessings that God has in store of us by reciprocating to others. If we are not careful, we can become isolated not from God but from others. Just like in a game of ping-pong, if there is no one there to return the ball, there is no game and it quickly becomes old and dull.
Other times, some of us may the ones who are always serving but we don’t allow others to serve us. In other words, allow others to minister to us. Instead, we gladly do anything for anyone else but when we have a need, we tend to shut down and crawl into our own little cocoon. In not allowing others to serve us, we think we are sparing the other person or persons time that they may not have, or resources that they may not have. However, it can be just as insulting to someone when we refuse to be served just as it is when we don’t reciprocate when we are served. When we don’t allow ourselves to be served with a grateful heart, we also put ourselves in isolation from others. We miss out in the blessings that God has planned for us through the service of others.
There are two stories in the book of John of serving and returning the serve. In John 12, we read how Mary took the finest of perfumes and washed the feet of Jesus with the oil and her hair. The disciples felt that this act was needless and a waste of money. The disciples felt that the money used for the perfume should have been used for the poor. But, Jesus told the disciples to leave Mary alone. Jesus told them that this act of love and service was a part of His Father’s plan.
Then, we read over in John 13 where Christ and disciples are celebrating Passover. Today, we know it as Holy Communion. As the evening progresses, Jesus washes the feet of His disciples. Again, they questioned and could not understand why Christ was washing their feet. As we read on in the chapter, we see that Jesus explains why He has chosen to wash the feet of his followers. This was Christ’s example of how we are to give and receive with one another.
These are two beautiful stories of Christ teaching us how to serve and be served. Have you ever participated in a Foot Washing service? I have and it is very humbling. As the person washed my feet, I felt unworthy of this ministry to me but yet I saw grace, joy and blessing in the giver’s eyes. If I had not participated in this service as the receiver and giver, I would have missed growing in grace and the blessings God had for me that evening.
As we go through our days ahead, we need to remember to take time to serve and then be ready to be a receiver, too. In doing this, we begin building bonds of friendships and community of support. It is in serving the ball back and forth that we learn about the other person’s story, we minister to each other and experience God’s grace and blessings all the more.
So, how is your game of ping-pong being played. Are you allowing the ball being served to you? Are you returning the ball? Does your game need to improve one way or the other? As you go through the days ahead, think about how your game needs to improve and allow the grace of God work through you in serving others and in allowing others to serve you. I also encourage you to read John 12 and 13 in the days ahead. It is in this back and forth with others that we experience God’s grace and the blessings He has prepared for us.
- One Hundred (aprilhawk.wordpress.com)
- “Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted” (worryisuseless.wordpress.com)
- Doing Life And Leadership With Others (makeithappenmoment.com)
- The Secret to Serving Others Well (trinitytuscaloosa.wordpress.com)
How many times have you been eating ice cream, drinking a cold shake or drink a little too fast? Yes, the minute we slurp that cold item, it goes straight to our head causing a sharp momentarily headache. This headache is better known as brain freeze. We shake off the brain freeze and a few minutes later we do the same thing again! You would think we would learn our lesson the first time. But, we soon forget and forge on to another brain freeze.
Now, think about the things you do in life. How many things do we do knowing that in the end result is not going to be good? We eat that big meal. Then, as we feel sleepy from eating and our pants feel a little too tight, we promise ourselves and those around us that we will not to that again! Yet,at the next big family reunion, without remorse we over eat again! For some of us it may be shopping too much. We get the credit card paid off promising ourselves not to charge a thing again. Then, the next big sale or holiday, we are out there charging all over again and sometimes opening a new one just to receive that extra ten percent off. The list could go on of the things we do in life that aren’t good for us and yet we do them again and again. Yes, this is what I call brain freeze!
As humans, we are weak. When God created us, He knew that we would stumble at times and would experience the occasional brain freeze. Knowing that we would experience an brain freeze here and there, He sent us His Son, Jesus to show us that we can be healed from the momentary headache. It is through the messages of Christ that we are also told that God still loves us when we stumble. Brain freezes have taken place over the ages.
King David experienced an occasional brain freeze. Look at the many times he messed up, confessed and then would mess up again. Yet, God loved David all the same. It is through the line of David we were given our redemption through Christ. Did you catch that word, redemption? Yes, once we confess our sin, we are redeemed by the blood of the Lamb. The key is to NOT repeat the same action again that caused that sharp headache in the first place.
Today, tomorrow, in the days ahead, we are going to be tempted by the very thing that gave us that brain freeze in the recent days. It is then when we need to give that temptation to God. Seek His grace and remember the ramifications of that particular brain freeze. If we have recently experienced that brain freeze and have not confessed it to our God, now is the time to do so. God already knows what we have done but he wants us to confess to Him. It is all a part of being in relationship with our Creator.
The next time you are drinking that chocolate shake or eating that bowl of ice cream, go about it slowly. Avoid that ugly headache. When you go about it slowly, you will savor the flavor all the more. May we walk slowly with caution with our God and be aware of His presence. Remember, we can avoid those awful sharp headaches. Not only will we avoid the brain freeze, but we will be able to savor the blessings God gives us all the more.
“Seeing then that we have a great High Priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in the time of need.”
Hebrews 4: 14-16
The last few days,I have caught myself humming the lyrics to an old hymn written by Julia H. Johnston which are “Grace, grace God’s grace; Grace that will pardon and cleanse within; Grace, grace, God’s grace, Grace that is greater than all our sin.” As I reflect on the meaning of these lyrics of this old familiar hymn, I think about all the times God’s grace has entered into situations in my life. Then, I reflect on how I can demonstrate that same grace given to me to those around me.
“Grace, grace, God’s grace” hums through my mind as I wait patiently for my order to be brought out at a restaurant. The service was not very quick this particular morning. But, I was having wonderful conversation and fellowship with a dear friend. Our server kept assuring us that our order would be out soon. Now, I could have gotten upset, looked for the manager, complained and ruined a perfectly good visit. Instead, I chose to use the grace card. You see, I only saw one side of the situation. There could have been a number of things going wrong in the kitchen to slow up the order. It was not for me to judge nor correct. My task was to simply use my grace card.
There are times when I may be at a check out counter and the clerk is struggling to check me out. They apologize and again I tell them “it’s ok.” I have worked retail and I know what computers can do, when new sales are not put in and what it is like to have something going on personally making it hard to focus on the job. Again, the grace card is issued.
God issued each one of us a grace card. His grace card covers all with no interest. As God extends His grace to us, it is our responsibility to extend His grace to others. Ephesians 4:32 says; “And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another,even as God in Christ forgave you.” When we use our grace card, we are truly a witness for Christ. Our using the grace card can make what could be a potentially tense and bad situation a situation that is bearable as well making someone’s bad day a little better.
We all have a busy week ahead. As we prepare to leave the house, we will make sure we have our cell phone, blackberry, wallet, purse, keys and such. But, as we collect these items to journey out for the day, let’s be sure we have our grace card…we don’t want to leave home without it!”
“We never cry out to God and receive a returned check stamped ‘Insufficient Grace.’ “
- Even Greater Is God’s Wonderful Grace by Mark D. Roberts (trinityspeaks.wordpress.com)
- A Wesleyan Moment | What is Sanctifying Grace? (thereformedwesleyan.wordpress.com)
For the last several days our eyes have stayed glued to the news and the happenings in Japan. They have suffered not only one disaster but three disasters. First, the earthquake, then tsunami and now the nuclear power plants are experiencing critical cooling problems. As most of us watch, we shake our heads in bewilderment, we send up a prayer for these victims and most of us will give to a cause that will help these people recover from such disasters. Of all developed countries, Japan was probably the most prepared and safety conscious country. If they had not been prepared, there would probably be even more loss of life and destruction.
When such disasters happen as they have recently in Japan, there are thoughts of wonder if we are in the end of times. Yet, it is not for us to know or question. Jesus, Himself does not know when He is to return. He will return when His father tells Him that it is time. The important thing we need to be concerned with is are we prepared?
When disasters hit such as what has happened in Japan, it wakes us all up. It causes us to go through our check list of preparedness. Do we have bottled water? Do we have plenty of food stocked up, batteries, flashlights, and first aid items? Just as disaster reminds us to update our preparedness for potential disaster, we also need to stayed prepared for when Christ does come.
How do we stay prepared? First, we must accept Jesus as our Saviour and establish a relationship with Him. Jesus tells us in John 14:6 “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” We must have the Scriptures written on our hearts. Be in constant communication with God through our relationship with Christ. Confess our sins and seek forgiveness. Everyday, demonstrate God’s grace, love and forgiveness.
Not only are we to be prepared, but, we are to help others be prepared for His coming back. Acts 1:8 tells us, you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth. Are we preparing others? Are we witnessing for Christ?
Jesus’ return may or may not happen in our lifetime. But, when He does return, it is my prayer that there will be many people who will be knocked off their feet by the splendor and awesomeness of His presence and not because they weren’t prepared. In the days ahead, go through your check list of preparedness for Christ’s return. Are you prepared? Are you helping others to prepare?
But of that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, but My Father only. Matthew 24:36
So I am giving you a new commandment; Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. John 13:34
One of my favorite reads is the book The Shack by William P. Young. If you have read the book, you are familiar with the character” Papa.” However,” Papa” is not a man but the character” Papa” is a large black woman. As Mac knocks on the door of the shack,” Papa” greets Mac with open arms. ” Papa” knows that Mac is overwhelmed with grief.” Papa” also realizes Mac may not be quite ready to hear what she needs to tell him. It is established early on that there is nurturing, listening, and the demonstrating of unconditional love before” Papa” can reach Mac’s heart.
Now, the question has come up a time or two why did ” Papa” (God) appear to Mac as a woman instead of in the form of male gender. My answer to this question is that God was meeting Mac where he was in his life. If you have read the book, you know that there is abuse in Mac’s background and if” Papa” had appeared to Mac in the male gender, Mac would not be open to the process of learning about life, forgiveness, and healing which was “Papa’s” purpose of Mac being at the shack. Instead, God knew where Mac was in his life and met him at that moment in time.
As Christians, we are taught to be disciples for Christ. We are encouraged to share the “Good News” and to introduce people to God and his Son Jesus. Yet, how do we present God and His Son, Christ, to someone who does not know their Father and Teacher? Do we start out by quoting scripture? Do we drag them off to a revival and hold them hostage at the altar until they repent and accept the Lord into their life? Or, do we just simply greet and meet them where they are at in their lives?
The answer is the latter. We simply meet people where they are in their life. It is important that we listen to their story, hear their needs, and their hurts with a non-judgemental attitude. It is our responsibility to show unconditional love and demonstrate God’s grace. Through these methods of meeting someone where they are, they will eventually see and experience the grace of God. As they experience God’s grace through you, you will also experience God’s grace through their story. You will see first hand what Jesus saw each time Jesus healed or forgave someone. It is then, you are a true disciple for Christ.
Not only is The Shack a wonderful example of meeting someone where they are, but, my dad was an example of this in his ministry. I remember many times when Dad would go work on old cars with someone in the community who probably rarely or never set foot into the church. Then there were other times where he met some of the guys at the local coffee shop and simply listened to their stories. And, now a days at his local Cracker Barrel, Dad takes time to hear people’s stories. Many times they do not even know he is a minister. In the beginning of meeting someone, he just simply shows an interest in them. Then, he listens with a non-judgemental heart and somewhere in there God opens the door for Dad to share about God’s grace. As a result of this, I have witnessed some of these very people Dad listened to and met where they were walk down the altar and give their life to Christ.
If you have read The Shack, you know eventually Mac comes around. He experiences the gift of forgiveness. He receives and accepts God’s wonderful grace. We see Mac’s hurts from the past begin to heal and he is able to move forward in his life. I like what Mac tells Jesus before leaving the shack and Jesus’ reply to Mac. He says; All my best treasures are now hidden in you……I want you to be my life. Jesus responds; “I am.”
As you go through your week, I ask you to carry Mac’s statement with you as well as the response to his statement. Then ask yourself ; Who’s story do I need to hear? Then, ask God to use you as His vessel to show that someone where the best treasures are in life.