‘For through me your days will be many, and years will be added to your life.’
It is a Thursday afternoon as I sit down to write this tribute to my son, Drew. In social media it is better known as Throwback Thursday. The day where people share pictures and stories of the past on Facebook.
Not only is it Throwback Thursday but it is the eve of Drew’s thirtieth birthday. Drew is now a dad himself. He has a precious four-month old baby girl. As he shares the newest things Campbell has discovered and/or things he is doing with her, my mind goes back to Drew’s childhood.
In these flashbacks, I can see a little boy sitting in his daddy’s lap early in the morning reading the paper and talking together before starting their day. As Drew got older, these early morning conversations and reading the paper together transpired at the table and eventually with a cup of coffee in hand. Nowadays,once a week, in the early hours of the morning, I can hear father and son having conversation together with a cup of coffee in hand. The only difference is it is over the phone.
Then my mind goes back to all the trips we took with Drew over the years. The beach trips, the Disney World trips, trips to the mountains and the list goes on. My favorite pictures of Drew on these trips are the pictures of Drew with his dad sitting on the beach planning what kind of sand castle they would build. As they planned, they would discuss what would be the foundation and how they would form this foundation and build their sand structure. It was all diligently planned out.
Out of these conversations, I think of the advice, the do’s and don’t’s Jim gave Drew. The most pivotal conversation I remember is the following on Drew’s thirteenth birthday.
“Son, you are turning thirteen. The gift I want to give you is an assignment. The assignment is to read the entire book of Proverbs and imprint the wisdom from this book on your heart.” Drew took what his dad said to heart and not only read the book of Proverbs but also memorized quite a few which he has quoted back to us on occasion.
As I reminisce over these conversations and words of advice between father and son, I see where God was guiding a father to guide a son. God guided a father to showing and teaching his son the importance of making wise choices, listening to others and building his life and home on faith in God. Jim wanted Drew to have a solid foundation and relationship with God.
Today, as I write this I have no real advice to Drew. It is my prayer that as he watches his little girl grow up to absorb all the moments he can. I pray Drew takes time to have those early morning conversations with his little girl in his lap that one day will evolve into conversations at the table over coffee. I have no doubt that Drew will pass on the legacy of love and the foundation of faith that was given to him through the years. It is without a doubt he has Proverbs 22:6 imprinted on his heart and living it out with his daughter. “Train a child in the way he is to go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.”
Drew- Have a wonderful birthday. This video pretty much sums up the wishes your Dad and I have for you on your birthday and in the days ahead. We love you and are very proud of you!