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Christmas Resolutions

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Since we are now in the midst of the Christmas Season, we know that the New Year is not too far away. It is on New Year’s Eve when we make those resolutions that we soon break within the first few weeks of January.  Instead of making New Year’s resolutions this year, why not make Christmas resolutions?

The Advent Season is a time of preparing our hearts and minds for the Christ-child. As we make these preparations, why don’t we take time out and evaluate our walk with Christ.  In this evaluation process, think about our daily walk with Christ. Where can we improve in the upcoming year? Think about our witness to a non-believing world. Are we a true witness for Christ? How do our priorities in life measure up? Do we put God first in ALL that we do?

On Christmas Eve, we will have made our evaluations/resolutions.  On this particular night we will be celebrating the birth of the Christ-child. As with any celebration, gifts are brought and given to the honoree. This year, let’s place these changes that we want to make  for the new year as our gifts to the Christ child. Then, allow the Christ-child to lead us through the new year.

Taking Inventory

“Immediately the Spirit drove Him to the wilderness. And He was there in the wilderness forty days, tempted by Satan, and was with the wild beasts; and the angels ministered to Him.”

This morning as I read the newest Facebook status updates, I saw where many were sharing what they were giving up for Lent. Others were sharing the beginnings of Lenten Devotionals along with where and when Ash Wednesday services would be taking place today and this evening. Then, I head on over to Wednesday morning bible study where the question was asked; “Lent. What does it mean?”

“Lent. What does it mean?”  Some of the answers from our group were it is a time of giving up something. One group member shared an idea from Christian author, Angela Thomas where Angela puts a bowl of flour out on the table.  Then, she has her children to write the name of a person they need to forgive or something they need to be forgiven for. Once they write this in the flour, they take their hands and wipe it out. This is a beautiful symbol of showing how Christ’s death on the cross wiped our slates clean. Others shared how they have come to find it a time of doing daily Random Acts of Kindness.

As I listened to these thoughts on Lent, my wheels were turning. I began to think of when we celebrate the New Year coming in and how we all make resolutions. We look at the new year as a time of renewal and fresh starts. Lent is very much like the New Year coming in. For me, Lent is not just about giving up, or daily acts of kindness but it is a time for taking inventory and renewing my walk with Christ.

In the days ahead, I will reflect on my Christian walk. In this reflection, I will asking myself the following questions and talking to God how and where I need to improve. The questions that I will be asking myself are:

Where am I on my Christian walk? Is God calling me to take a new direction?

How can I strengthen my faith?

What things are in my life that are getting in the way of my walk with God?

Where do I need to make changes to better serve God?

How can I demonstrate what God is doing in my life?

Where is God working where I can join Him?

These questions are only the beginning of me taking inventory. Throughout the Lenten Season, I am sure that there will be more questions that God will place on my heart for reflection and conversation with Him. It is through this inventory process that I gain new perspective and  a better understanding of my Creator who is always walking with me not just on good days but even in those seasons of life where I, myself feel like I am wondering in the wilderness.

Lent. What does Lent mean to you?

Blessings-

Look Into The Mirror

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   “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’   Matthew 25:40 


From my previous post, you know that I saw the movie, “Joyful Noise“.  The movie opens up with the choir master’s daughter singing “The Man In The Mirrorwhich is a Michael Jackson song that has always tugged at my heart.  I know many people have their opinions about the late performer good and bad but in this song, he has a  very strong message to ALL of us.

Okay. Now, before you continue reading, get a mirror. Look into that mirror. Who and what do you see looking back at you? Now, ask that person looking back at you; “what do I need to change in me that can make the world around me a better place?”

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Do others see Jesus in you? Do you see Jesus in the everyday routine”

“I’m starting with the man in the mirror, I’m asking him to change his ways” are the lyrics as the song continues to play. We all see hurt, hunger, people who are lonely, angry, and those who are seeking unconditional love.  Now, ask yourself, where have I missed opportunities to make a difference in the world.” “When did I fail to stop to help the lady struggling with her child and trying to load her groceries in the car because I would be late getting to the gym?” “When did I say no to ringing that Salvation Army bell for only one hour during the Christmas season?” “After all, it was for only an hour and that is equivalent to a one hour or two half hour television shows that I really don’t need to watch.” Or, “I got that extra bonus for work but I didn’t tithe because I wanted that new item too badly.” “But, it would have only been ten percent and it would have gone to where God would use it for his purpose in the world.”

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The list could go on and on with these types of questions. Yes, some of these questions are even to myself, April Hawkins! Convicting isn’t it?  Yes, sometimes there are situations where it is really hard to give our time to help, but God places opportunities in front of us every day to make a difference in His great big world. We don’t all have to enlist in the Peace Corps, drop what we are doing to be missionaries or give up all our earthly possessions.

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If you want the world the better place, take a look at yourself and make a  change.”  Maybe there is a child that needs mentoring and encouraging, there is an elderly person struggling to get into a building and it only takes a few seconds of stopping your conversation with who you are with to lend a help inside. Maybe you have a pantry that is overstocked that you could pull a few items out and send to the local food bank. For me, it is my writing words of encouragement whether it be on my web site or sending a card to someone who needs cheering up.  When I am out and about,  I try to stay aware of my surroundings so that if a door needs to be held open I hold it open, if someone needs to get in front of me in the grocery line, I tell them to go ahead of me and I pray daily for people who God places in my path.  It is the simple every day things in life that make the biggest difference in making our world a better place.

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In making the world a better place, we need to make sure that we do it with a  loving and Godly heart. We need to give without passing judgement those we are helping. I like the bookSame Kind of Different As Me” by Ron Hall and Denver Moore. In this book Denver talks about our giving money to those on the streets. To paraphrase what he says in the book; ” our money says “In God We Trust”  so give it and trust God to take care of the need and the person. Once the money leaves your hands, it is placed in the hands of not only that person but into the hands of God.” As I read Denver’s story of being homeless and his perspective from the other side of the tracks, my heart was convicted. How many times have I given to someone and wondered; “what are they going to do with that money?” ” I hope I haven’t contributed to a bigger problem!”

Jim and I are not big in sharing what we do for others. We feel that what we do is between God and us. But, as I write this post, God is tugging on my heart to share two stories.

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The first story is set in Chicago, IL the first day of  Spring, 2010.  It was cold and I don’t mean the kind of cold where you needed to make sure you had your hat and gloves. But, it was the kind of cold where not only was snow falling but ice was literally blowing in the face. The kind of cold that makes you just want to cry. )And, I do believe my daughter-n-law, Megan and I both have shed tears in Chicago from such cold weather elements).

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 Jim and I had arrived that morning to spend a few days with our son, Drew and celebrate Drew’s birthday and my birthday since they are only days apart. We were walking down Michigan Avenue huddled together to stay warm as we walked and so we could hear each other talk. As we were walking down Michigan Ave, we stopped at a cross-walk and there was this gentleman having to use a walker to be mobile. He had on what little warm clothes he probably could find.  Then, as we began to cross the street, my eyes are drawn to his feet and I see bare feet with bread wrappers tied around them for shoes. Instantly, I tugged on Jim’s coat sleeve and pointed out what I was observing.  I told Jim something had to be done.  Here I was staying at a very nice hotel that would be warm and cozy on my return from being out and about. I had a coat, boots, gloves, scarf, and hat to keep me warm. This man had little or nothing. Jim looked at me and I knew that was a God moment. Without hesitation, Jim reached in his pocket and pulled out his wallet and tapped the gentleman on the shoulder and said; “here, take this and get some shoes to get those feet warm.” The gentleman’s face lit up and he said; “God Bless You.” Neither one of us will ever know if it was a scam.  I doubt it because with it being as cold as it was, no one in their right mind would willingly go out in that blowing ice with just bread wrappers on their feet if they had any other choice. Neither Jim nor I will ever know exactly what all he would do with the money given but we placed our trust in God and into the tug that was in our hearts at that moment in time.

The second story just happened this past New Year’s Eve in Atlanta, Georgia. Jim and I were staying with our son and his wife who live in Mid-Town. The four of us had been out for New Year’s Eve dinner. After dinner, Megan and Drew headed out to attend a party at one of their House Church’s homes. Jim and I had planned to hang back, watch television, and babysit our grand dog (practice for when the grandchildren come).  Jim also had a couple of odd jobs around the apartment he told Drew he would take care of while they were out.

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As the evening progressed, I told Jim; “here we are in Mid-Town, Atlanta, The Varsity is just down the street and wouldn’t one of their slaw dogs, frosted orange, and a fried pie be great to bring in the New Year.”  I nodded my head “yes” as I persuaded him on this adventure. Now, from growing up in Atlanta, I expected to see and experience just about anything on a late Saturday night and even more so on New Year’s Eve. Yes, traffic was about what we expected. It was busy, wild, and let’s say interesting. As we pulled into the Varsity parking lot, a gentleman approaches our car and motions for Jim to roll his window down. I am sitting in the passenger seat saying; “Jim don’t do it” and locking the doors in the process. He began telling Jim that he and his family were stranded on I-75 (which is just over the hill from the Varsity).  He was trying to get home to Macon, Georgia. His car had broken down. He had some money but still needed $32.42 to have enough to get the car towed and repaired. Jim’s first response was; “I’m sorry sir but I don’t know if I can help you out” and began pulling away for us to park. Then, as we were pulling away, Jim looked in the side view mirror and saw this gentleman raise his hands to the sky in distress.  Of course, I am in the passenger side and I don’t see this but Jim immediately puts the car in reverse and asks the gentleman his story once again. This man shared his story and began telling us that he was a Veteran, Deacon in his church (gave the specific name) and about the family he had with him. Once again, Jim pulled out his wallet and gave money to help with the car and a little extra to get a snack while they waited. As we pulled away the second time, Jim looked back and saw this man walking a straight shot going towards I-75.

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Whoa!”, I said to myself and Jim. Boy! I feel bad that I  passed judgement like I did.” I tried justifying the location we were at and the time and type of night but my heart still ached for the thoughts I had during that moment. Jim and I went in, ordered our food, and had it walking (walking at the Varsity means to go).  We arrived back to the apartment, spread our food out that we had purchased but before we could go further, I told Jim we had to pray. We prayed for the gentleman and his family. We also asked for forgiveness for passing judgement instead of being the Good Samaritan.

Since that night, I look at myself in the mirror a little different. When I look into this mirror, I see a person who still needs to open her heart just a little more, let go of preconceived thoughts and pay attention to God and his tugs. Then, I see a girl who can love a little more, stop a second to help someone with the door, or listen to a friend who is hurting. I look into the mirror and as I see my reflection, I tell God that I want others to see his reflection in me and in my actions. And, by the way,to this day, I continue to pray for the man with bread wrappers for shoes. I also pray for the gentleman and his family who were trying to get home on a holiday weekend. It is my prayer that God will bless them and watch over them each and every minute of their lives.

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Okay, look in the mirror again. What can you do to change? What is the simple thing you can do to make the world a better place? Surrender to God and allow him to use you as his vessel of hope, love and encouragement. However, be ready because he will challenge you when you least expect it. For Jim and me, it was a cold icy day on Michigan Avenue and in a parking lot on a holiday night where he asked us to help him take care of someone.

In the  book of Acts, there  is a wonderful story of a man named Saul. He  hated Christ and participated in killing Christians. But, as he journeyed on the road to Damascus, Jesus stopped him. In this encounter with Christ, Saul changed his ways. Not long after that, we knew him as Paul.  As a result from this change, we have the wonderful writings of Paul to read, learn, and study as we journey on our faith walk.

 

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“If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make a change.” “I’m asking him to change his ways.  No message could have been any clearer.”  Are you willing to make the change for God’s glory and to make things just a little better for his children here on earth?

You Are What You Eat

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How nutritious are we in feeding our minds?

Well, we have first completed our first full week of the New Year. In this first full week, we have been daunted by the diet commercials, the  special nutrition segments on talk shows and have even said to ourselves that we need to take heed in what is being told to us. Yet, how many of us actually follow through with watching our diets and what we eat? I am sure as the first full week of the new year comes to an end,  vows of watching our diet are out the door. As a matter of fact, I write this with a Coca Cola in hand and just wolfed down a cranberry muffin as I walked through the kitchen.

This afternoon, as I jetted home from errands, I passed the Baptist church that is on my route.  On their sign, they usually have an upcoming event posted or sometimes a quote that can hit home. Today, there was the quote. The quote said something like this; “We are what we feed our minds.” Not too different from “you are what you eat.” Of course, as soon as I saw this quote, my brain said instantly; “there is a blog in that quote.”

Just as it is best for us to eat a healthy diet, it is good that we feed our minds with good things. Ever heard “garbage in; garbage out?” As the new year begins, let’s all be mindful of what we read, what we view on television, or at the movies, and the types of music we listen to. Believe it or not, what we feed our minds comes out in our attitude towards life, others and ourselves.  After all, what we feed our minds nurtures our hearts because “out of the heart the mouth speaks”(Luke 6:45)

Putting On A New Face

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"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. the old has gone, the new has come!" 2Corinthians 5:17

Over the last couple of years, I have picked up some sort of little gag gift for my family.  A couple of years ago, I purchased Groucho Marx glasses at the Dollar Tree.  When giving out these funny face glasses, I told my gracious family recipients  to let the glasses be a reminder of putting on a new face for the New Year. It was a chance to let go of the old and to start new and fresh.

Just as the Groucho Marx glasses symbolized to my family about letting go of the old and putting on a new face, it also represents what happens when we ask Christ into our lives.  When we invite Christ into our lives, we are willing to let  go of our old self and put the past behind us.  Once we let go of our old self, we put on a new face. The new face is that of Christ.

The year 2011 has now arrived.  I encourage you to take off the old self and put on a new face. Put on the face of Christ and remember you are His representative each and every day this year.  May those you encounter this year see the image of Christ in you.

Blessings

You’re Invited!

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“Blessed is the man who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.” Luke 14:15

‘Everyday should be a party dress day’ is a quote that I saw on a sign as I was ‘browsing’ through Hobby Lobby. It made me think about the Christmas Season and upcoming New Year‘s celebrations.  Party dresses to be worn and the guys dressed in their finest attire. Yet, when the season is over, the decorations will be put away along with the party clothes.

Whoa, hold on! When it is time to put things in storage, don’t put those party clothes away! God has planned a party for you everyday this next year and you are invited!  Joyce Meyer explains in her book Eat The Cookie; Buy The Shoe, that God invites us to join Him in his party.   An example that she uses in one of her chapters is Jesus calling His disciples. When calling these men to follow Him, He was inviting each one to join Him in the party.  She goes on to say “it is in our living for God and serving others with a Christlike mind that we are participating in God’s party.”  Thus, everyday is a celebration and everyday we are invited by God to join Him in His party.

2011 will soon be here.  As we make  our New Year’s Resolutions which we will most likely break on January 2nd, let’s accept God’s invitation. This year may we keep our party attire out to wear everyday.   Let’s celebrate each day, love one another, and serve others with a  Christlike mind.  As we are celebrating, let’s invite others to join us in this party with God.  It is a party like no other! Happy New Year!

Blessings!

Excerpt taken from Eat The Cookie; Buy The Shoe by Joyce Meyer (p.30)                  

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