Monthly Archives: December 2011
The other night Jim was loading up the back of his truck with items to take to the recycle station. As Jim was loading, my little fluff dog, Smokey got right up behind Jim. Thinking Jim would not see Smokey and step on him, I came up behind Jim to move Smokey out-of-the-way. Just as I was coming up behind Jim, I said; “be careful, don’t step back, I am right behind you.” I barely spit these words out when Jim stepped back. The next few minutes was like a scene from a Saturday morning cartoon.
Smokey went flying up in the air, I fell backwards and began to fall, and in the midst of this set of dominoes toppling over, Jim begins fall. Somehow, some way Jim managed to take his fall by leaping over me as not to hurt me anymore than I may have already been hurt. Once this escapade was over, laying on the ground, I ask Jim if he was okay. His response was; “yea, I’m okay. I think I hit my head but I am okay. How about you?” I replied that I thought I was okay and began to ask where Smokey had landed or ran off to. Then we wondered if any of the neighbors heard or saw us. I imagine if a neighbor or passer-by saw us, it was quite a scene to behold.
Smokey was found sitting next to the screen door that he uses to go in and out of the house. He was definitely seeking refuge and a place of safety. It was obvious that the escapade of events that just took place in the garage upset him. All Smokey wanted to do was go in the house in seek shelter in his Man Cave.
Our Christian walk is very much like Jim and I taking that fall the other night. Temptation comes along, we get in the wrong influence of people and without warning, along with the others begin to fall like dominoes. Our morals and values go up in the air just as Smokey went up in the air in the process of the fall. Then, once we finally land, we see if we are okay, shake our head in disbelief of what just happened and pray that no one saw us as we took that fall.
In today’s world it is so important to take a stand for the right things, take a stand for what we believe and for Christ. It is when we don’t take a stand on our beliefs, the easier it is for us to fall without warning. I am sure there are times when God sees us about to fall and He tries to warn us but we don’t hear Him. Thus, we begin falling not being able to regain our balance. Then, after the fall, we look up and ask ourselves and God what just happened. This is the reason why we must make sure that our feet are firmly planted and be in tuned to God’s direction for our lives every single day of our lives.
What can we do if we do fall? Be like my little pup, Smokey. Run for the door that is so familiar to us. This door is the door of Jesus Christ. He is our shelter and our refuge. It is when we run into His arms asking for His grace and forgiveness, we are forgiven. Then we begin to learn from the fall. Thus, to avoid a similar fall in the future.
Doesn’t this cartoon say it all? We all think we have it worse than the person next to us but the person next to us thinks they have it worse. Not only do we compare our situations with those around us but we look at what others have and think if we had what they have life would be better and we would really be happy.
It is all a matter of perspective. How often do we get wrapped in the illusions of what will make us happy? Do you recall the commercial of the guy on the lawn more. It began with Stan introducing himself and his family.He begins to name the things he has purchased that should have brought him happiness. As the commercial runs, you see the nice home, pool, country club membership, and all accessories but then the camera flashes over to Stan and the tables turn. It is pointed out how much debt he has accumulated to be “happy.” Then, you see Stan riding his lawn mower and he says; “somebody help me.” In other words, Stan is not really happy because he is busy buying into what the world has told him he needed to be happy. Thus, Stan is missing the real joys in life because he is busy trying to pay for those illusions he bought into.
We are all guilty of looking at others as having it all. Although, we are told in the Ten Commandments;Thou shall not covet thy neighbor”, we still look across the way and try to keep up. Yet, as we try to keep up, we get more and more stressed and that void we are trying to fill is still there. Just like the guy on the lawn mower, we all eventually are crying; “somebody help me.”
During the Christmas season, retailers put on even more pressure of what will bring that someone happiness. We hear and see ads from; “he went to Jared”, ” every kiss begins with Kay” and this includes the cute Capital One Credit cards where they tell you if you carry them in your wallet you can go anywhere and get anything. Thus, these things will bring happiness. But, we all know that come January the bills come in and again we say “somebody help me.”
Jim and I are of the generation of the cool bands. One of our favorite groups to jam to is Styx. The Grand Illusion is one of our favorite songs. It sums it up well of how we all get caught up in the illusions of what makes us happy. Instead of looking at our neighbor as we look ourselves, we allow the illusions to take over and we miss the real opportunities of getting to know someone, their story and reaching out to them in Christ-like love.
The lyrics in The Grand Illusion go on to say that ” we are all the same.” You ask, “how are we all the same?” We are all the same because we are God’s creation and his children. We all have a void in our lives that is looking for real happiness. The only true way to fill that void and experience real happiness is to take off our rose-colored glasses and put on the glasses of God.
It is through God’s glasses, we step out of the world of illusions and see the real true needs of those around us. When we put on these glasses, we need to be ready to see hurt, anger, loneliness and those longing for being loved for who they truly are. With the glasses of God we step out of the world of illusions into God’s world.
In God’s world, happiness is helping our neighbor, praying for those who are hurt, taking time to be with those who feel alone in the world. It is having Christ in our hearts and sharing Him with others. From my own personal experience, when I stepped out of the world of illusions where things were going to make me happy and put on God’s eyes, I saw that I didn’t need those things. I began to see the daily blessings and it is reaching out to others and encouraging them with the love of Christ that has brought true happiness.
We live in a world where people are searching even more and are becoming even more lost and caught up in illusions of happiness. Isn’t it about time we began to “show them the way?” (another lyric of another Styx s song) Next time the grass looks greener from the perspective you are standing, put on your God glasses to see the real picture. Realize that the only place where the grass is greener is when we enter the gates of paradise that Christ opened up for us on the day he was crucified. I imagine that grass is going to be the brightest and most beautiful green we could ever imagine.
“When Jesus heard this, he said to him, ‘You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give it to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.’ When he heard this, he became very sad, because he was a man of great wealth. Jesus looked at him and said, “‘How hard is it for the rich to enter the kingdom of God! Indeed, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.” Luke 18:22-24
The video below is a wonderful illustration of what happens when we look through God’s glasses.
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For us Southern Belles, not only is getting the tree and fireplace mantle in perfect shape but getting the dinning room table is at the top of list in what absolutely has to be done at Christmas. For me, candles are essential when setting the table not only at Christmas but year round. Having candles on the table holds meaning for me.
Growing up, my Dad’s dad was a retired Army Coloneland you knew he was an Army Colonel. When we visited my grandparents’ home, Mom always made sure we were brushed up on our manners especially before going to the dinner table. Dinner at Papa Hill’s house was an event every night. The good china and silver was used, no one sat down at the table until Papa took his seat and there were always candles on the table. As a teen I would roll my eyes and think “why not just use the Corelle Ware and be done with it” because at that age I would be having to help hand wash the china and silver.
As I have grown older, I have reminisced on those dinner affairs and their true meaning. For Papa, dinner with his family was special to him. He cherished having his family around the table for not only a meal but for a visit. Many a story and tale were shared around the table as we savored the pot roast, mashed potatoes green beans and apple pie. Grandmother had so lovingly prepared. Along with no one sitting until Papa sat, no one got up until they were properly excused by an adult at the table. As I reminisce about dinner with Papa and once I had been properly excused from the table, I also remember being in the kitchen with Grandmother up to my elbows in suds helping her wash the china and silver. It was those moments in the kitchen where Grandmother would not say a lot but here and there she would gently and lovingly smile and give you a little wink. She was a quiet lady with little to say but her smiles and winks said it all. You knew all was right in the world.
May, 2002 I stood by my Grandfather’s bedside just a little before mid night. Jim and I had volunteered to take the night shift of staying up with him at the hospital. From the looks of things, we had a pretty good idea that Jim and I would not be there all night. Late in the night, Jim sat by Papa’s side checking vitals until Jim noticed Papa’s breaths were getting further and further apart. As these breaths were getting shallow, I came over and took Papa by the hand. While holding tight to his hand, I looked at him and thanked him for all the cherished memories he had given us around the table that was always beautifully set with linens and candles. Then, I said “Papa, the table is now set for you. God has the candles lit and He has your place ready for you to take your seat at His banquet table. ” A few seconds later, Papa joinedJesus at the great banquet table.
The table is set. It is Christmas. The candles, fine linens and china are on the table. A meal will be prepared and the candles will be lit where new memories will be made and old stories shared. As I light the candles, I will not only remember my loving grandparents who showed by example that we are all special but I will also be reminded thatChrist is and has always been the center of our family.
How about you? Is your table set? If you haven’t already, add some candles to your table. Let your family know how special they are and remind them that Christ is the center of your home by lighting the candles. Sit around the table and make memories and share old stories. The teenagers may roll their eyes a little but let them roll. One day, they will be thankful that they have such warm memories.
This post is dedicated in loving memory of Col. Carl R. Hill, Sr and Virginia Louise Hill
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In my December posts from last year and this year, I have shared the roles my son chose to be in telling the Christmas story when he was a child. Since the Advent Season has begun, we have either seen or will see the Christmas story told in churches, shown with live nativities in various places and/or will share many versions of the Christmas story. Last year, there was the Google Search that showed what it would be like if Google existed back in the day. This year, we have seen how the story would be told via Facebook. Then, this afternoon, I find the video of the Google Earth Christmas which is another beautiful sharing of the Christmas story as told in Luke.
No matter how the Christmas story is told, whether it be kids dressed up in their finest bathrobe to tell the story, box office hit movies telling the Christmas story, or the Social Media sharing how the news would spread in today’s world, the message remains the same. God sent His Son for us. Christ came to be our Prince of Peace, message of hope and forgiveness.
As we continue through this Advent Season, may you seek a way to share the story of this Prince that came to bring hope and forgiveness to a broken world. You will have your own way of sharing it but non the less “Go Tell It!” Tell people what Christmas is ALL about!
This morning, as I began my morning routine, I looked across the room to notice the Christmas tree lights had not been plugged in. “Ugh!”, I thought to myself; “that tree looks so ugly right now!” “Before I do anything else, I am plugging in the tree lights!”
What made the Christmas tree look ugly to me? It was all the matter of the lights. Once I ventured across the room and plugged in the tree’s lights, my outlook on the tree changed completely. I saw a very pretty tree that my family will enjoy when they come in from Christmas.
When the Christmas Season arrives, some of us go out to find that perfect tree to bring home. For others of us, it is a matter of deciding which tree from the attic will come down this year. Then, for some, there is a theme for the tree and others it is putting heirloom ornaments on the tree. The Hawkins’ tree is one of two we choose from year to year as to which to put up. Then, in recent years, I have used a Santa theme with all things related to Santa with the exception of two nativity ornaments that are placed in the front of the tree. Other items that go with our tree are the heirloom hand crochet snow flakes that Jim’s grandmother made for as a wedding gift, the Precious Moments angel at the top, the crochet tree skirt made for me over thirty years ago by one of my dad’s parishioners and underneath in front of the packages is Santa kneeling at Jesus’ crib. Yet, with all the memories and ornaments that have been placed on and around the tree, it is still not the same until the lights are plugged in.
Our lives are much like the Christmas tree. Despite all the dressing up we do, our true beauty is revealed when we allow the light of Christ to shine through us. Jesus reminds us ALL in Matthew 5:14-16; You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.”
May your light shine before ALL men not only during the Christmas Season but all through year ahead. Plug in the light of Christ and let others see His beauty through you.
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“Tis the season!” The season of parties, more things to do than usual, shopping and baking. As I looked over my list of what needs to be done around here the quote; “God does not give me any more than I can handle but I wish he would not trust me so much!” Sound familiar. We all have thought and/or felt this when the list is long and the time is short.
God began to speak to me as I pondered over this quote and got myself together for my bible study’s Christmas party. “I wish he would not trust me so much….hum..” Is it really God trusting me so much as it is he who is wanting me to trust him more? Yes, God does not give me more than I can handle even though I look at my list with bewilderment of trying to figure out what to do first or next!
In my conversation with God, he helped me to realize that it is in the things to do, the shopping, the parties, the baking and coordinating Christmas plans with family that he is wanting me to lean on him. He wants me to place ALL of these activities into his hands and allow him to help me through. As I surrender these lists to God, I realize that I am drawing closer to him in my walk with him. He and I are talking more. The more I surrender to him the more I can handle all there is to do.
Are Christmas lists getting the best of you? Are you thinking “I know God would not give me more than I can handle but I wish he wouldn’t trust me so much?” If you are, realize that God is trusting you to trust him. Place those lists into his hands, talk to God about the concerns on your lists. As you begin to surrender to him, you will see that you can handle all that is before you.
Here are a couple of scriptures that can also help you get through the Christmas Season:
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything; tell God your needs, and don’t forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God’s peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will keep your thoughts and your hearts quiet and at rest as you trust in Christ.
Last year in my post,Drew Said; I Want To Be Star”, I share how at age three Drew wanted to be the star in the church’s Christmas pageant. In that post I shared the importance of the Christmas star and how we are a star for Christ. As Christians we are commissioned to share the light of Jesus Christ.
As I close in this blog, I promised to follow-up with Drew wanting to be the donkey the next year. Again, his dad and I shake our heads and try to suggest to Drew about playing the role of a wise man or a shepherd. But, Drew dug his heels in once again and announced “I want to be the donkey!”
The donkey is not the most respected animal in the barnyard. As a matter of fact, it has been used as a symbol of mocking and used in name calling and put downs. Despite the donkey not being respected, it is known as a symbol of peace times whereas, the horse seems to symbolize war times.
When you think about the donkey it makes sense that it would be a symbol of peace. After all, it was the donkey that Mary rode to Bethlehem as she was pregnant with the Christ child. Once in Bethlehem, Mary would deliver this baby that would share God’s peace with the world. Then, one week prior to Christ’s crucifixion, Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey where the crowds greeted him with the waving of palms. In a matter of days, Christ would give Himself to be crucified so that each person could experience the peace of God in their hearts.
The donkey is not only the creäture that carried the Prince of Peace but it is the one creäture that probably understood Jesus. During Jesus’ ministry, he was mocked, laughed at and probably called a few unsavory names. Just as Christ was mocked, Christians today face the same type of mockery from time to time for their witness. Some Christians even lose their lives for testifying and sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Reflecting on that Christmas where Drew insisted on being the donkey, God gives me a message today through that memory.It seemed that Drew knew at a young age the risks he would take sharing God’s message during his lifetime. At the age of four, Drew knew that sharing the gospel would have its challenges at times. Our son, Drew is now a man who continues to seek peace with those he is around and shares the light of Christ that he symbolized when he was three. Once again, it seems that a child understood his role in not only the Christmas pageant but what his role would be in this great big world. All of us should be willing to demonstrate the peace of God to all of those around us.
Mary Did You Know? is one of my most favorite songs during the Christmas Season. Did you know that a comedian wrote the lyrics to this beautiful song? Yes, Christian comedian, Mark Lowry wrote the words to this beautiful hymn but had no tune to go with it.
Mark asked singer/songwriter, Buddy Green to write the tune to go with these lyrics. With Buddy’s talent in writing music and the gift of Mark’s writing, we have the beautiful song Mary Did You Know? to enjoy and to reflect on what our Savior did for us. It is now one of the most sung Christmas songs during the Christmas Season.
Jim and I are in a Sunday School class called New Beginnings. Our class had its Christmas party this past weekend. I had a cake made by our local bakery with the nativity scene and the caption “Because of His birth we have New Beginnings.”
Today, as I scroll and read updates on statuses on Facebook, a friend posted; “Butterflies, so unusual to see in December.” When I read this post, I could not help but click ‘Like’ and commented back to her; ” Yes, it may be unusual for most of us to see butterflies in December but when you really think about it, what an appropriate time to see the butterfly who is a symbol of new beginnings.” We are in the Advent Season of preparing our hearts, minds and souls for the celebration of the Christ child.
It is the birth of Christ that gave an upside down and crazy world New Beginnings. God sent His Son so that we could know that we are forgiven and that we can forget what lies behind us and seek to look ahead to all things new. After all, it was Christ’s death on the cross that opened up the doors of Paradise.
As you go through the Advent Season, reflect on the many New Beginnings that you have received as a result of your faith in Jesus Christ. If you have not accepted Christ as your personal Saviour, ask Him into your heart this Christmas season and experience a New Beginning in your life.
*Thank you Kelli Richardson-Smith for giving me this food for thought on her Facebook status. You just never know when or where God is going to speak and I will just have to write.